Treasure identifying Golden Finger

0Faang Cheng looked at the old man in front of him, and instantly remembered who he was. Wasn't this the old man he met on the plane, and he suddenly remembered that the old man had told him before that his fake Field-yellow Stone was to give to his mother as a birthday present to some big boss. Wasn't it just that big shot?!    

    

A mother asked me, "What should I do with the children?"    

    

A mother asked me, the child does not like to practice now, how to do?    

    

A mother asked me, how did good habits develop?    

    

For such questions, I would often be stunned for a moment, for a moment, not knowing where to start.    

    

Yes, the people who asked the questions were all studious mothers, that was undeniable. They all hoped to find a secret manual, or even a talisman, that could change the child in an instant. But was that possible? Of course the answer was impossible! In my opinion, the nurturing of a child's good habits is not only a process of long-term insistence, but also the accumulation of detailed treatment. And the biggest test facing the parents here is not the quantity of education theory nor the quality of the parents' culture, but also the determination and persistence of execution.    

    

As a common example, almost every mother says that she wants her child to be balanced in nutrition and not be picky about eating and eating. But when a real child refuses to eat because he doesn't like it, can you really make him eat and not starve? If he doesn't finish his meal within the prescribed time, can you really take away his bowl and chopsticks in time? Can you not chase after this kind of problem and feed it until the next time you have dinner, when you are only allowed to drink water and not give snacks, and let the child bear the consequences of picking and dragging himself? Can't it? Because you are worried that your child will not be full, because you are worried that your child will not be nutritious, these anxieties affect your ability to execute. But in reality, it was not bad for a child to get hungry for a meal or two. Although there were many children in the hospital whose indigestion and indigestion had an effect on their stomachs, they were barely malnourished because of not eating anything at all. In this contest for food and procrastination, because you are not strong enough to carry it out, the child has the upper hand, what grievances do you have?    

    

Let me give you a small example. You said the child was distracted. Have you ever given a child an environment with toys or books of interest so that he or she can play in peace and undisturbed? Do you often interrupt a child's self-indulgent little game to let him follow your train of thought? Have you ever calmed down to play a simple game with your child, in which your child dominates the process of the game rather than you? Do you have time to observe what your child is most interested in and then give him the opportunity and occasion to immerse himself in this interest? Have you given your child a chance to solve a small problem on his own and find the answer on his own? Has your child ever been alone? Did you disturb him while he was in a daze? Have you ever cared why he's in a daze? If you haven't done all this, how can you tell if your child really can't concentrate if he's lonely and eager to fill up his time, if you're in a hurry to get to the end of the day without asking him? In fact, many children are not distracted because their parents did not give them a chance to focus, let alone consciously to carry out related training.    

    

The third little example, take your child to learn the zither happily, before that, did you have a promise with your child that he would either not learn it or insist on learning it? Every time he teaches a class, do you listen to your teacher carefully, even take a notebook to record down your teacher's instructions to your child, and then return home to earnestly implement your teacher's teaching goals? When the child plays the zither, do you stand with the child to insist, always give guidance, each child every progress and correct the child every mistake, or let the child pull you in the study in the living room TV surfing the Internet? When the child was playing well, did you kiss him in time to hug him, praise him in time, and affirm his confidence? The child does not want to play the time, encountered difficulties or bottlenecks, did you accompany him to persevere with perseverance? More than three years before my son learned to play the zither, how long was it that I stood by to watch him play? In addition, I had to buy food and cook to keep myself clean, and standing for such a long time had left me with a broken back. Without such a sacrifice, how could Xiao Qu's desire for the violin have come to an end today?    

    

You said the kid had to eat snacks and go to the bathroom for a few minutes, so before playing, did you ever ask the kid if he was hungry and thirsty and needed to go to the bathroom? If it's OK, then twenty minutes and a half before playing, I'm sorry, I absolutely can't put down the zither and leave, can you stick to your principles? The child asks you to say that when you only take a sip of water to eat half of an apple, do you stick to the principle of not having enough time to leave the battlefield, or do you just think that a few minutes won't be enough time to compromise with the child? Compromise, this rule building contest you lost, the good habits of the children have failed again.    

    

You say the child is too slow to do his homework, first ask yourself if you have prepared enough for the child before he goes to school. You're not really going to give your child six years of fun, are you? If so, I can only say, play enough, always have to return, to make up for it! Since you've let your child play for six years, you'll have to take on the responsibility of tutoring your child on homework every day for quite some time after primary school and making your child fall in love with it as soon as possible. Otherwise, if you can't do your child's homework by yourself, how can the teacher do the homework for dozens of people in the class alone? If he could not read, then he could not read. If he could not read, then his comprehension ability would be low. If he could not understand, then how could he write? From the day of the beginning of primary school, it is your duty to help your child learn patiently every day, consciously cultivate good learning habits, and guide your child to establish the right learning methods. Don't try to be lazy and think that education is a matter of school; don't compare our primary school experience with that of today's children. That's because the overall level of education was low then, look at our textbooks then, and then look at the curricula of our primary and middle school children now, and you'll see how ridiculous it is to compare our past with the children's present! Just as we cannot compare our present with our parents', we should look at our children with a developmental perspective and clearly assume the burden of family education. Do you have a schedule for your child that fits his needs? Are you strictly following this schedule? When a child cannot finish his homework because he is naughty or lazy, do you dare to make him sleep so that he will not be allowed to do his homework and sign on the book to report the situation to the teacher? I've done it, but what about you?    

    

You say that the child's writing is too ugly, reflect on it first, have you given the child any calligraphy training? Have you helped your child learn to analyze the structure of Chinese characters in the framework of structural pen strokes? Why do primary school students write using the field grid, that is to help children to establish the concept of the structure of the Chinese character rack left, right, intercalation and fusion. Don't say that this should be done by the language Elder Wen teachers, they would definitely teach the language Elder Wen teachers a part of the lesson in passing, but, for a class to only have 40 minutes, a semester to only have 4 months, and a teaching task with so many knowledge points on it, the teacher would never be able to do it and not be able to do it. A child slowly and carefully correct and mentor a child, placing a treasure that was written on the child's comprehension ability during class, don't you think that it's like gambling? Don't say that you don't understand it, the information on the internet is so developed that there is nothing you don't understand. There is only what you don't know if you want to learn or not, even if you aren't good at learning and guiding, how can you blame your child? If you want your child to write well, you have to first teach him how to write well. Then, you have to patiently remind him to use the method you learned while he is writing his homework, encourage him when he is right, remind him when he is wrong, remind him in time, if you have the ability to do so, your child will find it hard to not write properly.    

    

And so on and so forth. There are many similar examples. So don't just look at my happy letting go today. Before I let go, both I and my child have experienced the long and painful process of establishing rules and training habits. We may all have similar educational concepts, but whether or not there is a flexible way to implement them and adhere to them is the key to children's good habits. The strategy can be consistent, but the tactics are flexible and roundabout. Facing each different angel, can you use your brain to find a way to fit the child, then carry it out firmly and persevere, determining how far the child can go in the future and how easy it will be? Other mothers!    

    

"Elder, you're here!"    

    

Faang Cheng quickly nodded his head.    

    

"Eh? Faang knows my senior brother? "    

    

Granny Bai was surprised.    

    

"This is a long story, Faang is the savior who saved my life, if not for him, I would have already went to meet my Master!"    

    

The old man smiled bitterly.    

    

"Little brother, you saved Elder Wen before?"    

    

The Fatty Bai prodded Faang Cheng's waist, and Faang Cheng turned to look at him with a face full of ignorance.    

    

"Is this old man surnamed Wen?"    

    

"You don't know who he is? You actually don't know who the Elder Wen is? You as an antiques collector... You're not qualified? "    

    

Fatty Bai was really impressed by Faang Cheng, did he really just turn a deaf ear to everything that was happening, and wholeheartedly appraised antiques?    

    

"Just who is it? You can just tell me, but you have to keep me in suspense!"    

    

Faang Cheng worriedly looked at Fatty Bai's face.    

    

"Wen Qiming, former Director of the Cultural Relics Bureau, current President of the National Cultural Relics Association, Fellow of the Chinese Academy of Cultural Heritage! You can even say that she is the head of the domestic antiques industry! "    

    

Fatty Bai raised his thumb, Faang Cheng looked at the benevolent old man in front of him with surprise.    

    

"Young man, we were fated to meet. Last time you saved me, I didn't even have the time to thank you!"    

    

Elder Wen stepped forward and stood in front of Faang Cheng.    

    

"Elder Wen, the last time … Actually, it's my fault, if it wasn't for me, you wouldn't be able to have a heart attack, I'll save you … "It can be considered as making up for the debt!"    

    

From the beginning, Faang Cheng had always felt that it was his fault. At that time, he could have been more tactful and reserved.    

    

"How can I blame you? If it wasn't for you, I would have brought that fake Field-yellow Stone to celebrate Junior Sister's birthday. If that was the case, I would probably have had a heart attack during the birthday banquet! At that time, I'm afraid I'll have to screw up Junior Sister's birthday feast! "    

    

Elder Wen's face was filled with praise and admiration for Faang Cheng.    

    

"What's going on? Senior-apprentice Brother, we are all confused!"    

    

Granny Bai was confused listening to everything. Fatty Bai was also confused, and those watching the show were even more confused. Thus, Elder Wen told everyone a simple story about what happened on the plane.    

    

"Really? Senior Brother, you couldn't even see the flaw, and Faang actually noticed it! "    

    

These older generation cultural relics workers were different from the average antique collector. Not only did they love those exquisite, extraordinary, and rare ancient relics, they also admired the appraisal skills that had outstanding abilities in this area.    

    

"Look, Grandmother, I already told you that this kid is a talent at appraising antiques!"    

    

Fatty Bai acted as if he was happy.    

    

"Ah, I'm not as good as you say, I just … It was just luck! There was once a senior who said that good luck was also an important factor in appraising antiques. Three parts of the world are destined to have seven parts of luck, and I might be the one who will have seven parts of luck! "    

    

Faang Cheng anxiously tried to clarify, in front of the two elders, he did not dare to be arrogant.    

    

"Good luck …" To put it bluntly, you are a genius, and you … It's that genius! "    

    

The Elder Wen patted Faang Cheng's shoulder, indicating that he did not need to be modest.    

    

"Come, appraise this for the elder today. The gift I am giving today …" What is it? Remember, my gifts can never be mediocre or ordinary! "    

    

The Elder Wen passed the small box in her hands to Faang Cheng, then walked to the side of the Granny Bai and sat down stably, and looked at Faang Cheng with a torch-like gaze!    

    

In the eyes of the people around him, there was anticipation, curiosity and doubt. Faang Cheng faintly sighed, and in the end, still took out the small box that Elder Wen had handed to him, and slowly opened it. All he saw was a slightly yellowish, crystal clear, oval-shaped bead, quietly laying inside the box! Faang Cheng felt weird, he could not feel any spiritual energy flowing around, it was quiet, but he could sense nothing. Faang Cheng turned around and looked at Elder Wen who was sitting there with a smile on her face. Previously, Elder Wen had planned to give him the Field-yellow Stone that she had spent more than 10 million to buy, but now, even if the Field-yellow Stone was fake, he couldn't possibly use an extremely ordinary glass bead to fool Granny Bai right? This bead … There must be a problem!    

    

As a result, under everyone's doubtful gaze, Faang Cheng gently used his thumb and forefinger to pick up the pearl. In a split-second, Faang Cheng's hand flicked and the pearl fell back into the small box, quietly staying there!    

    

This kind of searing feeling was completely different from before. The searing feeling Faang Cheng previously felt was due to the searing heat that came from when the spirit energy in his body neared another object and came into contact with the spirit energy in its body. However, the searing feeling that came from the bead just now was from the searing heat that came from within the bead itself, as if there was countless energy within that small bead!    

    

It was the first time that Faang Cheng encountered such a situation, he quickly searched his own brain for an impression of this kind of bead. It was light and transparent, the bead had irregular spots, and it was very small, oval-shaped, and the bead had a strong energy or spirit inside. Suddenly, something very suitable for the description out above appeared in Faang Cheng's mind.    

    

"Granny Bai, you … Do you believe in Buddha? "    

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"Yeah, how did you know?"    

    

The Granny Bai replied to him with a smile.    

    

"As expected..."    

    

Faang Cheng let out a small sigh of relief and smiled faintly towards Elder Wen. After that, he closed the small box and slowly walked towards Granny Bai, passing the box into her hands.    

    

"Granny Bai, Elder Wen has really given you a meaningful gift, you must take it!"    

    

"Senior Brother, sorry for the trouble!"    

    

Granny Bai took the gift and smiled to his senior brother.    

    

"Hey, Faang Cheng, what is it? Have you identified it? "    

    

The Fatty Bai pulled at the corner of Faang Cheng's clothes and asked impatiently:    

    

"It's a sariras. It must have come from a high monk!"    

    

Faang Cheng said to the Fatty Bai in a low voice.    

    

"Young friend, you are truly wise. This is the first time I've seen someone with such a young age and eyesight like you. In a few years, young friend, you will definitely achieve great things!"    

    

Elder Wen stood up, her eyes were full of admiration and praise.    

    

"Elder Wen, you are being too serious. I am the owner of an antique shop and am relying on this craft to earn a living. I never thought that I would have any great achievements!"    

    

Faang Cheng stood obediently at the side and muttered.    

    

"Alright, the birthday feast is about to start, isn't it? Gramps, continue chatting with Elder Wen, I'll bring Faang Cheng to meet someone. His antique shop is about to open, I'll help him save up some popularity!"    

    

"Fine, go ahead, it's Faang's antique shop. I want to take a look when I have time!"    

    

Granny Bai watched as his grandson dragged Faang Cheng and ran to the other side of the venue, where a group of young people lived!    

    

"A young person's abilities must be respected!"    

    

Wen Qiming, who was standing beside Granny Bai, lamented.    

    

"Senior Brother, why don't you accept another disciple …" "How about it?"    

    

Granny Bai proposed to him that only senior brother could control such a seedling.    

    

"Accept a disciple? He doesn't need to acknowledge me as his master, because... It won't be long before his achievements far surpass mine! "    

    

— — The content is from [Mick Read]